How do I make my husband less shy in bed???????

My husband and I have a good sex life but there is one problem. I am the more adventurous type in bed but he is not that open to trying new things in bed like using toys. I like to give him handjobs and blowjobs but he says its weird. My husband has the weekend off and I was thinking maybe when he comes home I could make him a nice dinner, give him a sexy strip tease, and masturbate for him but I'm scared that it's going to freak him out. What should I do? Should I do things more slowly so he gets used to it? Please help!!!